Gray hair is a crown of glory; it is gained in a righteous life. ~Proverbs 16:31
Wisdom is with the aged and understanding in length of days. ~Job 12:12
As you approach the second half of life:
-Are there times you feel left out
-Do you feel like you have lost your passion and purpose?
-Are there things that scare you about life after retirement?
-Where do you feel disconnected from life?
Our American society doesn’t say much about gray hair being a “crown of glory.” The culture in our country has been focused on ways to stay young and enjoy life, while those of us over 50 have been relegated to concerns such as social security, medication, and disease.
As these bible verses show us, focusing on youth is short-sighted and leaves out the experiences and contributions inherent in the second half of life. Using the work of Angeles Arrien and Richard Rohr, retreat participants will explore the wisdom they’ve gained and experiment with embracing their authentic story. Retreatants will be invited to reconnect with a deeper part of themselves through small group work, time in reflection, journaling, and creating a plan for next steps in walking the wisdom path. Since self-reflection is an essential part of the process, participants will have ample time for this between sessions. Guided by Paula Jilanis and Demara Stamler.
Check-in begins at 4pm. There will be a brief welcome session at 5:30pm, followed by dinner at 6pm. The retreat begins after dinner at 7pm on Friday and concludes before lunch on Sunday. Mass will be celebrated in the Chapel on Sunday morning for those who would like to attend.
Paula Jilanis, MA, LMT has facilitated retreats and workshops since 1995. She has been involved in retreat work at Bon Secours since 2009. Her intention is always to create a safe space where others can explore their inner world. As a spiritual director and a life coach, Paula works holistically to bring people more deeply into their spiritual journey. She is author of the book A Guide to Creating Your Wellness Center.
Demara Stamler, CLC, LMT is a certified Life Coach by the Brave Thinking Institute. In addition to coaching and consulting for individuals and businesses, Demara has taught workshops and led retreats since 2008 for a national accrediting agency, multiple massage therapy schools, and more recently for the American Massage Therapy Association, representing the organization in classes at their annual Summit and Convention. Her goal for each workshop and retreat is to inspire participants to connect with possibilities for their next chapter and take tangible steps toward them. Demara’s goal is always to facilitate a growth-rich environment that is supportive and engaging.