What Really Happens on a Retreat?

Aug 2, 2026

If you have never attended a retreat, you may wonder what actually happens once you arrive. Will you have to remain silent, pray all day, or share personal feelings with strangers? The reassuring answer is no. A retreat is simply an invitation to step away from everyday demands and create room for rest, reflection, and renewal.

Every retreat is a little different. Your experience may include guided reflections, prayer, journaling, nourishing meals, meaningful conversation, or quiet time to explore the chapel, Peace Garden, labyrinth, and beautiful grounds. Some retreats include periods of silence, while others are filled with conversation and connection. The retreat description will help you choose an experience that feels right for you.

You do not have to be “good at prayer,” arrive with a strong faith, or share anything you would rather keep private. Many people attend retreats alone, and you are free to participate in whatever way feels most comfortable. There is nothing to prove and no pressure to have a profound realization. You are welcomed exactly as you are—hopeful, tired, uncertain, spiritually curious, or simply in need of a quiet place to breathe.

Most importantly, you do not have to accomplish anything. You may leave with new clarity or a deeper connection with God—or you may simply feel more rested and at peace. Whatever brings you here, the Bon Secours Retreat & Conference Center offers a welcoming place to pause, listen, and discover what unfolds. Explore our upcoming retreats and find the experience that speaks to you.

If your interested in learning more about our upcoming retreats please use the link below to check out what we have coming up!

Bon Secour Retreat and Conference Center Retreats